Posted: Sun Mar 15, 2020 4:53pm
Hi Matthew,
It's not all black and white. Have a family (7 generations) farm in Ireland with 3000 plus famine graves 250 yards from the house. Had a farm on the Fens, where we had roman graves. Took the Queens shilling and was in Irish States version of the Territorials, The FCA.. ( not to be confused with the terrorist IRA). Have a European passport and relish the freedom that comes with it. Worship old Jags and Holland and Hollands ( though don't like to shoot defenseless birds). Grandfather was presented with the Founder's Medal for exploration..but great grand father was catholic Judge. Dad served in the Irish Army during the War. He attended UK Public School and had an Oxford degree. Had an uncle that dealt with the 3rd Reich. Same man took huge risks on humanitarian causes.
I started with nothing but a poor education because I couldn't connect (.. very thick!) with the system.
Now I owe both Ireland and The UK so much. I hope I have contributed more than just taxes.
In Spain I don't refer to their civil war, because I know that in Ireland we are still not quite past ours , and this happened a generation years earlier than the Spanish.
I see it as all a great mix. One can appreciate and cherish traditions . One can identify with and support one's country. But does this mean that we should be unkind to others.
I have dined with Prime-ministers , Commanders, beggars and convicts. I saw in myself, their strengths and their failings, while I was being made welcome.
If we keep on with the tit for tat, the only place it will end is with drones and missiles.
If we moderate our words.. we can make so much progress reaching out and being made welcome at the tables of people we might otherwise see as enemies . This is why I am truly delighted to receive your coffee invitation.. though I worry you might not find me much company.
( If any works out my family name.. do please keep it off the post. Contact me privately through the site, should you care to)
Do wish you all so much strength and courage for what lies ahead.. look after yourselves.
Signing off the thread for now.. but will read any replies.
God speed. Mike